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"The entire experience left both myself and my husband with post-traumatic stress"
A mother’s experience of Oxford University Hospitals Maternity Services in 2001 and 2002: Our harrowing experiences encountered at the...
Anonymous
Oct 9
"I felt imprisoned, not cared for. Abused, not supported."
A mother's experience of Oxford University Hospitals Maternity Services in 2019: My experience of childbirth in 2019 was traumatic and...
Anonymous
Oct 6
"they put my baby to the side in a bloody blanket and forgot about him."
A mother’s experience of Oxford University Hospitals Maternity Services in 2022 and 2023-25: I lost a baby in 2022 and had a horrible...
Anonymous
Oct 4
"they were the reason why I got sepsis in the first place."
A mother's experience of Oxford University Hospitals Maternity Services in 2022: I got to JR maternity and I asked for a water birth, so...
Anonymous
Oct 3
"The midwife told me it was “all in my head” and left me for six hours in agony with a hugely full bladder."
A mother’s experience of Oxford University Hospitals Maternity Services in 2023: In 2023 my bladder stopped working during the birth of...
Anonymous
Sep 26
"they went to certify him as having passed away to then look at me and apologise to say he was still alive"
A mother’s experience of Oxford University Hospitals Maternity Services in 2006: I lost 2 babies in the JR in 2006, both babies died...
Anonymous
Sep 26
"I feel my birth was stolen from me and the opportunity to have any future children."
A mother’s experience of Oxford University Hospitals Maternity Services in 2022: I was offered an amniocentesis at my 20 week scan as...
Anonymous
Sep 22
"I was a pre-eclampsia patient and even after ringing for assistance no one showed up for over an hour."
A mother’s experience of Oxford University Hospitals Maternity Services in 2024: There was no midwife available for me while I was in...
Anonymous
Sep 22
"I asked for a birth debrief and went in to, again, be shamed by the midwife"
A mother’s experience of Oxford University Hospitals Maternity Services in 2019: I had my first child at JR in 2019. There were a...
Anonymous
Sep 22
"My son was born with meningitis from the infection I contracted after having waters broken too early."
A mother’s experience of Oxford University Hospitals Maternity Services in 2013: I was induced on the Friday afternoon, and they left...
Anonymous
Sep 22
"he ended up with a pneumothorax. I am left with a prolapsed bladder"
A mother’s experience of Oxford University Hospitals Maternity Services in 2017: I feel let down by both community midwives during the...
Anonymous
Sep 22
"I knew I was in labour from the moment I arrived. No one listened."
A mother's experience of Oxford University Hospital Maternity Services in 1991: After reading some of these dreadful experiences, I had flash backs of the birth o f my 3rd child back in 91. I was due a home delivery as 2 of my births were low risk. However, I started contracting rapidly at 36 weeks, it was late evening. I decided to go to JR. On arrival I was told that I was not booked in! I explained this was my third pregnancy and I was sure I was in labour. T hey tol
Anonymous
Sep 18
"They had forgotten I was there, so I was there for a longtime vomiting"
A mother’s experience of Oxford University Hospitals Maternity Services in 2021: I gave birth to our daughter in November 2021 at OUH....
Anonymous
Sep 17
"I was treated horribly by a midwife… I believe she was racist and Islamophobic"
A mother’s experience of Oxford University Hospitals Maternity Services in 2014, 2017 and 2021: I’ve had all of my 3 children at OUH....
Anonymous
Sep 16
"I decided not to have another child as the thought of entering that maternity ward again was too much to bear"
A mother’s experience of Oxford University Hospitals Maternity Services in 2007: My baby was 10 days overdue and so I was booked in to...
Anonymous
Sep 16
"the matron marched onto the ward, flung open everyone’s curtains... stripping away any sense of dignity or privacy."
A mother’s experience of Oxford University Hospitals Maternity Services in 2015: I was induced with my first child in November 2015. As...
Anonymous
Sep 16
"I received little to no help in caring for my twins in the 48 hours after my caesarean section"
A mother’s experience of Oxford University Hospitals Maternity Services in 2020: I had a twin pregnancy (MCDA) and had a substandard...
Anonymous
Sep 16
"We reached out to PALs to raise a complaint and had a response that essentially said ‘these things happen’ with no apology."
A mother’s experience of Oxford University Hospitals Maternity Services in 2023: My name is [name], I gave birth by emergency...
Anonymous
Sep 16
"He was my first born and arrived at 33weeks. I had a very traumatic birth where he was starved of oxygen"
A mother’s experience of Oxford University Hospitals Maternity Services in 2012: I gave birth to my son in 2012 at the John Radcliffe...
Anonymous
Sep 16
"she looked around the room then looked at me and said “where is your baby” I had to then explain my daughter had died"
A mother’s experience of Oxford University Hospitals Maternity Services in 2010: When I was 28 weeks pregnant, I went to hospital having...
Anonymous
Sep 16
"I have since learned that this is a strong indicator of acute TAPs which could have almost certainly been avoided if a c-section was performed like I had requested."
A mother's experience of Oxford University Hospitals Maternity Services in 2015: Refused option of C-section, despite high risk twin...
Anonymous
Sep 15
"My daughter died 2 days after birth due to lack of oxygen"
A mother's experience of Oxford University Hospitals Maternity Services in 2009: My daughter died 2 days after birth due to lack of...
Anonymous
Sep 15
"I had in fact broken my tail bone during delivery. For which I received no pain relief or treatment."
A mother's experience of Oxford University Hospitals Maternity Services in 2021: It’s hard to put into words but my 4th baby was born at...
Anonymous
Sep 15
"I will never forget the trauma of not being listened to for weeks whilst knowing my baby was in trouble"
A mother's experience of Oxford University Hospitals Maternity Services in 2023: We lost our baby at 20+2 weeks after three weeks of...
Anonymous
Sep 15
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