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"The first Doctor was repulsively rude... I cried and screamed in pain, and she refused to stop."
A mother's experience of Oxford University Hospitals Maternity Services in 2026: I gave birth at the John Radcliffe last week, and I need to share my experience. Before I begin, I do want to say that there were some lovely members of staff. Sadly, these were diminished by the 'care' of others. I will explain the full birth, from start to finish. I arrived at the JR during the early hours of [date] June 2026. I didn't know if I was in labour or not, but the contractions were
Anonymous
5 days ago
"I was eventually referred to a consultant who told me I was being hysterical and should just get on with it."
A mother’s experience of Oxford University Hospitals Maternity Services in 2015 and 2017: I experienced a problematic first pregnancy with what they described as “an irritable uterus” from 16 weeks which involved contractions whenever I or the baby moved. When it was investigated a junior doctor during a check up, he told me he didn’t know a lot about pregnancy but in all probability I had had a miscarriage and should go home and wait for the baby to pass. I was eventually re
Anonymous
Jul 5
"they’d stitched me up wrong and I’d developed a hematoma between my vaginal and anal walls"
A mother's experience of Oxford University Hospitals Maternity Services in 2016 and 2021: I had my first son in Nov 2016. Whilst on the MAU I was in agony. They didn’t listen, sent me up to a waiting level. They didn’t check on me once. My mum had to beg them to. Then when they finally checked me, I was (idk how many cm but it was very far along) they rushed me up to the labouring ward. I was left in cold water to birth my son – I was shivering etc. When he finally arrive
Anonymous
Jul 3
"He later came back and looked at my vagina and said ‘what a disgusting mess’."
A mother's experience of Oxford University Hospitals Maternity Services in 2009 and 2013: Nov 2009: Induction at 42 weeks with first baby, eventually delivered by Ventouse weighing 4kg. The delivery was brutal, I thought I was going to suffocate on my own vomit as I was given pethidine and was hallucinating, but was forced to lie flat on my back. I wrote down afterwards how I had endlessly vomited over several hours while the baby was delivered; I was terrified I couldn’t kee
Anonymous
Jul 2
"I still have PTSD. I am 83 now."
A mother's experience of Oxford maternity services in 1967: My baby daughter should have been born on 10th May. I was two weeks overdue and terribly neglected so she was delivered by vertical caesarean on 28th May 1967. She was my first baby. I had a 72 hour labour, no pain relief, emergency vertical caesarean which I had to wait 8 hours for. After 2 weeks in hospital I was traumatised and couldn't eat or sleep. I was forcibly separated from my daughter who I was breastfe
Anonymous
Jul 1
"I was told they would pull three times only, but my husband said I was dragged down the table over and over"
A mother's experience of Oxford University Hospitals Maternity Services in 2020: I had my first born in 2020 and had an overall poor experience at the JR maternity unit. My first midwife was rude and snapped at my husband and barely spoke to me. I had so wanted a water birth and to avoid forceps at all costs. However, I felt so unsafe and cared for by our first midwife that I asked for an epidural as I felt I wasn’t coping well and also knew it would mean I would change war
Anonymous
Jun 9
"I was told...I had FOB "fear of Birth" when actually it was fear of the John Radcliffe"
A mother's experience of Oxford University Hospitals Maternity Services in 2020 and 2025: I was told by a previous midwife from my pregnancy with my 10 month daughter that I had FOB "fear of Birth" when actually it was fear of the John Radcliffe. I was explaining to her I didn't want to give birth in John Radcliffe due to my son’s birth in 2020 and explained why. Yet I had no choice but to have my 10 month old at John Radcliffe. Both times have been horrible. My sons was th
Anonymous
Jun 7
"Part of my labia was sewn to the wrong part which has left me with almost no labia on one side."
A mother's experience of Oxford University Hospitals Maternity Services in 2020: I was given an episiotomy which remained painful for years and now causes me discomfort. Part of my labia was sewn to the wrong part which has left me with almost no labia on one side. Five and a half years on it still itches and is uncomfortable and urine doesn’t flow out properly. I was also left with a tight piece of skin over the posterior of my vaginal opening which made sex very painful. I
Anonymous
Mar 28
"It was one of the worst experiences of my life and would have been avoided if we had just received the proper care"
A mother's experience of Oxford University Hospitals Maternity Services in 2018: When my youngest was born, and before I held her, she was put under a heat lamp. I commented that her face looked quite red, and they said it was because of the heat lamp, yet they didn't increase the distance from the lamp. With my previous births, I was desperate to get home and pushed beyond my limits to get there. This time it was different; I felt extremely unwell and asked to be admitted.
Anonymous
Mar 28
"16 years later I am still trying to get gynaecological repair"
A mother’s experience of Oxford University Hospitals Maternity Services in 2010: I had an extremely difficult pregnancy, including hyperemesis, cholestasis, kidney issues, arrhythmia - every check-up seemed to include something new. I was under the care of the Silver Star team who kept me sane but made it clear there was a possibility there would not be a happy outcome for either of us. We got to delivery and labour went wrong, only saved by the fact that I was kept on a mo
Anonymous
Mar 6
"Deplorable care"
A grandparent’s experience of Oxford University Hospitals Maternity Services in 2020 and 2021: My daughter had two babies at JR. The first wasn't feeding well, but discharged, with daughter being dismissed as inexperienced, worrying & 'you'll get the hang of it'. Baby had a severe tongue-tie. I paid for a private midwife to rectify the problem, (I'm a retired paramedic of many years experience). Second pregnancy, daughter presented in labour, and was told to go home (withou
Anonymous
Mar 6
"I had lost my daughter, endured multiple pregnancy losses, and had been physically and psychologically harmed by the care I received"
A mother’s experience of Oxford University Hospitals Maternity Services in 2020/21: I am writing to step forward and join the families affected by maternity care at John Radcliffe. I am sharing my full account now because I have only just become aware of the scale of the current investigation, and because I finally feel able to speak after holding this for five years. Our daughter, [daughter’s name], was stillborn on [date] 2021 at 39 weeks. She weighed 9lb 5oz. Before th
Anonymous
Feb 11
"We are heartbroken parents, grieving the tragic loss of our firstborn son"
Parent’s experience of Oxford University Hospitals Maternity Services in 2025: We are heartbroken parents, grieving the tragic loss of our firstborn son, [son’s name] . It was such a difficult pregnancy, with hyperemesis gravidarium tormenting our brave [mother’s name] morning, noon and night. Throughout pregnancy [mother’s name] also suffered with UTI’s and general bloated feeling from second trimester. One of her final UTI’s she suffered visual disturbances believing this
Anonymous
Feb 10
"I requested a Caesarean… I was denied and forced into an induction"
A mother’s experience of Oxford University Hospitals Maternity Services in 2024: When I went overdue, I requested a Caesarean instead of being forced into induction which I did not want, due to the statistical rate of extreme interventions that scared me. I was denied and forced into an induction. Left to hyper stimulate for 10 hours (1 minute on, 40 seconds off), and treatment to help stop it never came. Pain relief denied. Eventually when baby went in to distress we got m
Anonymous
Feb 6
"I had laboured, pushed, and undergone an emergency forceps and suction delivery with a cervical stitch still in place"
A mother’s experience of Oxford University Hospitals Maternity Services in 2019 and 2023: First pregnancy – 2019 In 2019, I presented to the hospital at 24 weeks pregnant with vaginal bleeding and significant pain. I was admitted but no scans were performed, no internal examinations were carried out, and no meaningful assessments were made beyond routine observations. Despite my symptoms, I was discharged and sent home. Six days later, as my condition worsened, I brought
Anonymous
Feb 6
"I was experiencing bleeding and the fetus had a weak heartbeat, I was given only two paracetamol tablets and asked to wait"
A mother's experience of Oxford University Hospitals Maternity Services in 2025: I had a traumatic childbirth. Although I was experiencing bleeding and the fetus had a weak heartbeat, I was given only two paracetamol tablets and asked to wait, being considered a non-urgent case. Later, I required emergency surgery.
Anonymous
Feb 5
"During the whole labour I felt like I was being experimented on"
A mother's experience of Oxford University Hospitals Maternity Services in 2001: I had a terrifying and excruciating experience at the John Radcliffe Hospital, Oxford in 2001. Now, nearly a quarter of a century later, I still bear mental and physical scars. I realise that I am fortunate because my daughter survived the ordeal and has grown up healthy and well. When my waters broke late on a Wednesday night the baby dropped to the left and my bump was distinctly lopsided. On
Anonymous
Feb 1
"I nearly lost my life due to the midwife pulling the umbilical cord"
A mother's experience of Oxford University Hospitals Maternity Services in 2020: I nearly lost my life due to the midwife pulling the umbilical cord with my retained placenta causing a major haemorrhage with baby number 1.
Anonymous
Feb 1
"When looking at my medical notes months later, they’d put me on a sepsis pathway and had never told me"
A mother's experience of Oxford University Hospitals Maternity Services in 2023: I had my 1st baby in early 2023 and I didn't know what to expect, but I did not prepare for what had happened. I had my usual 40week (I was 40+5) midwife appointment and my blood pressure was taken. It was a little high, but I thought it was nerves due to having a sweep during the appointment. The reading didn't go down, but no protein was in my urine but advised to go to the maternity assessment
Anonymous
Jan 28
"Where my horror story begins is with the care given in the maternity ward afterwards"
A partner’s experience of Oxford University Hospitals Maternity Services in 2025: My partner had a difficult C-section. It was planned but the process didn't go as smoothly as it should have. They nicked a blood vessel during the procedure and she lost a lot of blood. Then they had difficulty getting baby out and he required resuscitation immediately after being delivered. Thankfully he responded quickly and is completely fine. However, despite this the surgical team were by
Anonymous
Jan 28
"My water broke at 32 weeks… At 34 weeks, I was finally induced as an emergency after my baby’s heart rate rose"
A mother’s experience of Oxford University Hospitals Maternity Services in 2025: I am a 26-year-old mother and was under the care of John Radcliffe maternity services during my pregnancy and birth. I am autistic and have ADHD, which significantly affects how I process information, sensory input, and stress. These needs were documented, and I had a neurodivergence passport in place. I was also experiencing significant mental health difficulties during pregnancy. What I experie
Anonymous
Jan 27
"I was told there was nothing wrong and was sent home, despite being in extreme pain... I felt completely dismissed, ignored"
A mother’s experience of Oxford University Hospitals Maternity Services in 2025: I joined this campaign to raise awareness and to warn others about serious failings in care at Oxford University Hospitals, specifically the John Radcliffe Hospital. During my late pregnancy in 2025, I experienced numerous and escalating health problems. While heavily pregnant, I attended the hospital on two separate occasions due to severe and persistent pain. On both occasions, I was told the
Anonymous
Jan 26
"I’m heartbroken that my beautiful daughter has been plagued for her entire life due to negligence"
A mother’s experience of Oxford University Hospitals Maternity Services in 2025: My daughter has Erb’s Palsy due to negligence and this would have been avoided if the right thing was done. The last scan I had for my baby was at 36weeks and she weighed 3.2kg and she was born at 3.9kg. No pelvic examination was done to be sure I was able to push a 3.9kg baby via vagina birth. I was induced for labour at 40weeks after I have been presented with 3+ of protein in my urine sinc
Anonymous
Jan 26
"I was taken back up to the delivery suite to try for a "natural birth”… I still really struggle to understand why this risk was taken"
A mother's experience of Oxford University Hospitals Maternity Services in 2018: This was a complaint email I had drafted but had never sent as I had exceeded the 3 years but it details my experience: I would like to raise a complaint about the care I receive in October 2018. Unfortunately, I suffered with post-natal Anxiety and PTSD for which I underwent counselling. I then fell pregnant with my second son and did not want to re-live the trauma whilst pregnant and suffer a
Anonymous
Jan 25
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